RATS! We knew this day would come and though we are disappointed with Emory's behavior choice today, we are relieved he feels remorse, especially that today would be the first time he's EVER had to move his behavior clip. WAHHHHHHHH!!!
This sweet and stubborn boy, along with a few other boys, were talking in line and when asked to stop they all ignored the teacher's request. If you know anything about Emory, you'd know this was a blow, straight the the heart. Even so, he is not one to back down, especially if he feels you're wrong and he's right (not sure where he gets that personality trait from. EEK!)
When I arrived after school, his nose was bright red and his eyes were puffy and watery. His teacher felt terrible, especially terrible knowing she would be the very first teacher ever making Emory move his clip to yellow.
This is the Behavior Clip Chart in Emory's class. Each day the student's clip starts at "Ready To Learn" (green); if they do not follow the rules or instructions, the student is asked to move their clip down one spot. Emory's teacher is the best of the best; she is patient and kind so I have zero doubts Emory deserved to move his clip today.
I love Emory so much and it breaks my heart when he's sad and/or makes poor choices. As much as I'd like to ignore the "yellow" warning and / or tell him not to cry because it was only a yellow, I have to remind myself he needs natural consequences (those that relate to the crime) and of course, our involvement.
Being present, hands-on, and consistent can be difficult at times like these; hopefully our attention to this matter will help Emory understand we expect better, whether it be tomorrow, next week, next month or next year. Too much talking isn't terrible, but it is when you're ignoring the reminders. Today was a good lesson for us all. I'm confident tomorrow will be a better day.
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