I love watching Everett play. Everett LOVES to play. Lately he's been using his imagination creating lots and lots of scenarios with his toys.
Seen here, Everett asks his animals if they want to go to the birthday party. The conversation goes something like this: "What you doing puppy? Want to go to the hirthday party? Okay, lets go!"
Today, Everett found the boas and tiaras we bought for Ori's birthday party back in March. Everett was really excited to find them. The conversation with Mama went something like this:
Ev: "OH WOW! How bout peesh one?" (peesh = this, in Everett lingo)
Deona: "Oh you want to put that tiara on your head?"
Ev: "uh-huh and how bout peesh one?" (now talking about boas)
Deona: "Do you want pink or green?"
Emory: "Pink!" As Deona places boas around neck Everett shouts out " How 'bout Green?!"
Everett had so much fun showing off and looking at himself in the mirror.
I love this developmental stage. Everett loves playing with whatever makes him happy. He knows no difference between the stereotypical "boy" and "girl" toys, and I like that very much. I've always felt that if I raised my children simply as young people and not in gender specific ways, then they would come to their own conclusions as to what traits they wanted to have. Their strengths would come from feeling self-confident and trusting their own feelings.
I wish more parents felt the same way I do. It saddens me to know there is a high probability our Everett will be in the same classrooms with children who have been brainwashed taught dolls are for girls and trucks are for boys. If you agree with this thinking, please teach your children never to tease because of the toys a child chooses to play with. True story....One time while shopping in Target I overheard a mom telling her son he couldn't have the doll he had chosen because "it's a girl toy and your daddy will whip your ass if i got it for you". I did everything in my power not to knock the living sh*t out of that woman. I was so incredibly sad for the young boy. Here's a newsflash people: Your son will not turn gay if he plays with dolls and your daughter will not become a lesbian because she played with G.I.Joes!! Okay, getting off my soapbox now. :-)
Well all that to say, Everett loves to play. "Boy" toys, "girl" toys, it doesn't matter. At the end of the day his happiness is what matters most to me.